Posted on 17 October 2015.
If you are from New York, you know my pain.
I bet you that whenever you tell someone from this area that you are from New York, they always assume that you are from the city.
People tend to forget that there is a lot more to the state that isn’t the Big Apple.
Everyone knows the city and mostly everyone has been there. That’s the most important part of New York state.
There are so many things to do including shopping, going to sporting events, night clubbing and many more.
Everyone is aware of Long Island and when people say they are from Long Island, they don’t specifically tell you what town they live in on the island.
For people like me, the city and the island are hours and hours away.
I’m from upstate New York and I’m about an hour south of the state capital, Albany.
If I were to tell people where I’m from, they would have absolutely no idea where my town is. I live in a very small town that’s known for the fall foliage. That’s actually how my town got its name.
I’m about a half hour from the beautiful Catskill mountains and I’m no where near any huge town that everyone knows about.
People might say that I live in the middle of nowhere.
It’s pretty true though. My town has about 10,000 people in it and it’s in a random location.
My high school is very high ranked in academics and athletics.
That’s one of the few ways someone might hear about my town.
We are always known for having good sports teams and have huge rivals against schools from all over eastern New York.
Living in a small town isn’t bad. Even though you tend to know everyone and all of their drama, you get to know everyone and they will feel like family.
Every September and May, we have block parties in the center of town and that’s where friends and family can go enjoy some live music, good food and good company along with small vendors lined up along the sidewalks.
Back to my rant, I don’t like the fact that when I say I’m from New York, they have to assume that I’m from the big city.
If you look at the map of New York, you will see that there is so much more than just that tiny southern area that everyone knows about.
There’s Albany, the actual state capital where you can go to Crossgates, the mall, and hang out with friends.
You can’t forget Buffalo where the Buffalo Bills play for football and where they got around 90 inches of snow last winter.
What about Syracuse? The sea of orange? Most people I know have been to a Syracuse basketball game and have decked themselves out in orange.
The big towns throughout New York get all the credit for being fun and anyone from any other state only knows about the larger cities.
There are towns smaller than mine that are a lot more interesting than mine are.
Some towns around me have docks on this little strip of water where you can go canoeing and kayaking.
I live along the Hudson River so that’s always a fun place to go fishing or take a dip in the summer.
I guess the bottom line is that it’s not always good to be known to be from New York and automatically assume that you’re from the city.
There are some nice parts of the city and then there are some that are sketchy and grimy that makes me never want to live there.
I mean, I do go to the city whenever I can to hang out, go to the bigger shopping stores and just to take the train and subway since they are so much fun.
I’m a huge Knicks and Mets fan so I will always go to the city without hesitation to see my favorite teams play.
I just can’t see myself living there and it always being busy.
I love living in a small, quiet town where you don’t have to deal with a lot of crimes, problems and other situations.
I definitely recommend taking a couple days to explore the tinier parts of the state where the real nature and beauty is.
There are so many state parks, hiking trails, camp sites and other activities to do once you head north and out of the busy cities.
Once you are an hour out of the city, you will start to see nature that you never thought you would before. It’s natural beauty and that’s the best part about living in New York, not living in or anywhere near New York City.
