Imagine living in a non-judgmental atmosphere where only harmless people socialized and did activities together — this is something the real world doesn’t offer, but one can virtually create.
Co-founder of the application Anomo, Ben Liu said, “I’d say we’re actually a little different from social networking — more like social discovering,” as he explained how to connect with local users of the network. Anomo is a live chat with anonymous avatars.
Liu said they labeled this app as “Anti-Tinder” because Tinder is purely about the external.
“We think that’s pretty shallow, so we want to base it [Anomo] on who people really are. Tinder is more focused on dating and we don’t mind if people use it for dating, but it can also be for friendships and all types of different relationships,” Liu said.
Liu indicated the key characteristic that really differentiates Anomo from other social networking applications is that they allow all users to make an avatar.
Liu’s partner and other co-founder of Anomo, James Sun, explained the importance of being anonymous on the app. Sun said it originally started as an anonymous social network that allows users to reveal themselves on the app over time.
“Even in the dating sense, if you think you might not be attracted to that person, but you might get to know them first and be attracted to them being funny and other things — Tinder doesn’t give that opportunity to happen. We do,” Liu said.
Liu said he found, when talking to users (in particular, female users), some are scared to give out information. He said when talking to someone, their name and where they are from does not matter at first; it is what kind of person they are that matters.
On Anomo there is no invasion of privacy, Liu said, “We allow you to do it [use the app] without giving up your identity until you’re ready to do so.”
Sun said Anomo has made social networking discoveries. For example, he said they found when people engage on these social websites they might have anxiety about how the person on the other side is viewing them.
“Will that person like me or not, or the way I look, or what my status is, or who I am, or what my social network looks like?” Sun asked.
Sun explained the problem is that, if someone has social anxiety, and they go on an app like Tinder, which asks, “Are you hot or not?” they’re going to miss out on opportunities to talk to a lot of people based on a photo.
Sun continued, “So our research showed by removing the picture, you get a social experience. If you’re perceived as beautiful or not, it doesn’t matter.”
Allyson Ayala, a Keene State College sophomore, agreed with Sun’s statement and said, “You wouldn’t be able to see someone’s personality through pictures. On Tinder people definitely only judge you on looks.”
Katelyn Newcomb, a KSC student, said she’s never heard of Anomo before, but she’s used Tinder. She said she’d enjoy a less judgmental app, because she thinks Tinder is all about looks as well. She said the user must double click on a photo to show they have liked it, and it is only if the other user also double taps the photo as well that it makes a ‘match.’
Sun said the way users get matched on Anomo with other users is by playing an “ice breaker.” He said it’s about a five-question test Anomo gives to get to know the user. Once the avatars interact with someone, they get smarter and can find out more about another avatar. After the user reveals more about themselves, then Anomo can find more people whom are compatible with Sun said.
Sun continued, “It’s always new. You open the app and you never know who you’re going to meet. It can be any reason to socialize; people meet at the same college, sports game, guys meet girl, girl meets girl, dating does happen, but it’s also just a social place. I think there’s something for everybody. If you’re not that good looking on Tinder, you’re not going to get much action, not many matches. Anomo is driven by common ground and common interest. We think it’s a different way to approach it.”
Liu said Anomo is used to help introduce people to others with shared interests based on everything from location to shared attributes.
He also said they gather information and try to learn as well as predict whose compatible with whom.
“Chats are private. We do have group chats and talks more in a forum,” Liu said.
Liu also said he thinks this app will stay nonjudgmental. “Our users are very, very positive. We thought the anonymity would drive them to act poorly. Because of anonymity, it’s pointless to bash an anonymous person, so they actually support each other,” Liu said.
Sun said, on average, users are on the app 38 minutes per day. Sun noted that on Facebook, users averaged 17 minutes of use a day. He also indicated the app is reaching all over the country.
Liu said the app has really taken off — even faster than they hoped.
Another new social networking site that is reaching all 50 states launched about a month ago. Cynthia Tercier is the founder of FirstInteraction.com and her idea behind social networking is to create a more active site. Tercier said, “You’ll be able to create a group in a community or area, like if you want to hike or skydive, or single moms want to meet other families with children and go have play dates, you can create that group, and then get similar people with that interest.”
Safety is key for FirstInteraction.com as the app makes sure that all users pass a background check. Tercier said they work with PeopleSmart, a company which does the background checks. “Anyone who had more than a DUI, it will come up as a misdemeanor, and then we can determine if it’s just a DUI or if there’s more to it. I’m not interested on what is in their record. We filter it based on the information we want,” Tercier said. Tercier said if the user does not pass, they are not provided with a reason. First Interaction will tell the denied users they are not able available to access an account, Tercier noted.
A KSC sophomore who wished to remain unnamed said she has used Tinder before, but has not heard of the First Interaction site. She said she feels using this app would be safer, because it is hard to know the past of some of the people you get matched with.
Once users can access an account, they can create and administrate their own group. Tercier also advised users to upload videos and photos, but encouraged them to be active in the picture or video, so other people can see what activities other users enjoy and participate in.
“Dog lover? Meet up with them [other dog lovers] at the doggy park. A paddle boarding group started in Hawaii, people can meet up at the north shore and work on their paddle boarding. Or a group called ‘Night on the town’ for anyone who wants to go dancing,” Tercier said as she talked about all the different groups people have already started to create.
Tercier stated she did a survey with over 100 people.
According to the survey findings, the age group her site attracted was ages 26-34. Tercier said she found it quite shocking that males were the majority of users. Jay Sahasakmontri, a KSC student, said males usually don’t want to admit to using social networking sites.
According to Tercier, the survey found that people who liked the idea of the website also liked that there was a background check.
Newcomb said, “I’d definitely feel safer talking to people if I knew they had a background check first. People are creeps these days.”
Tercier said the website does yearly background checks on all users.
Bethany Ricciardi can be contacted at bricciardi@keene-equinox.com