It’s been a great school year for the Fraternity and Sorority Life community. As more houses come to campus, the FSL family continues to grow. We spoke with two first year Greek members Ethan Dagenais of Sigma Phi Epsilon and Michelle Friedlander of Delta Delta Delta who shared their experiences. Dagenais is a sophomore, but this was his first year in his fraternity. Friedlander is a freshman.
Q: Why did you decide to join a house on campus?
Ethan: I had friends who came to Oregon last year that joined a fraternity and after hearing them tell me about the amount of friends they made and good times they had, I immediately knew that I wanted to do the same. I had always considered being a part of a fraternity once I got to college, and then I heard about all these great things my friends experienced and the decision became obvious.
Michelle: I decided to rush in the fall because my older sister was in a sorority here at Oregon. I knew she had a great time in Tri Delta and I wanted to be in a house too. I already knew a couple of the girls and I knew that I liked the house, many of the girls and the chapter’s values before even coming to college.
Q: Were you intimidated by being a freshman within your chapter and how did your house help to make your first year easier?
E: Being the new guy in any situation is always intimidating. You’re just starting to get to know everyone and they’re still getting to know you, so you feel like you got to stay on your toes at times so you don’t say or do something stupid that makes everyone think, “Who gave this guy a bid?” The guys in the house made it really easy to help break that tension by always offering to play basketball, get lunch or just do something fun and have a conversation.
M: I wasn’t, but I know a lot of girls are at first. Since I already knew a few people, it was easier for me to go to the house and just hang out. However, before we get our Bigs, we have “Pearl Pals,” which is a process where girls who want a Big and girls who want a Little who have similar interests get paired up to meet each other. This really helps new members meet older members and become more integrated into the house.
Q: What advice would you give to someone experiencing their first year of college, while also being in a chapter on campus?
E: The biggest piece of advice for someone who’s experiencing their first year of college and a part of a fraternity is really figuring out how to manage your free time and not leaving school work to the last minute. Fraternities have a lot going on and can be a demanding time commitment, so it is important to get work done as soon as possible in the week so that by Thursday night you’re ready to start your weekend.
M: It’s not too difficult to balance school and a sorority if you know how to manage your time. I really think that’s the biggest thing because it’s so easy to get distracted when you’re in college.
Q: What has been your favorite part about joining a fraternity and sorority?
E: My favorite part about Sig Ep is the friends I’ve made. To think that at the beginning of the year I didn’t really know anyone in the house, and now I not only consider these guys my best friends but also my brothers is an incredible feeling. These are the friends that I’ll have by my side for the rest of my life.
M: My favorite part about being in a sorority has been meeting so many new people and making so many great friends. I can’t wait to be living in the house next fall. Living in a house with my closest friends will be the time of my life. There’s never a dull moment and always something to do. Fall term can’t come soon enough!
Q: How do you think you’ve benefited from being in Fraternity and Sorority Life?
E: Being apart of Greek Life is an amazing way to be involved with the school and meet new people. There are always events going on and opportunities to have fun. I think that the best part about Greek Life is that it’s not just exclusive to this campus, but extends across the country. The idea that I can go visit another university and stop at the Sig Ep house on a different campus is amazing to me. It’s a really great feeling to be connected to so many people and be apart of something so much greater than yourself.
M: I think I’ve benefited from Greek Life in that it taught me how to better manage my time, work with others and take accountability for myself and others. Greek Life also benefited me because taught me what good PR means and to better represent myself to others, because when you’re in Greek Life you’re not only representing yourself, you’re also representing your entire house.