Posted on 06 November 2014.
After nearly two years in the Philippines, Hamani Stevens walked into his home for the first time. His knees couldn’t hold the weight of the moment. He dropped down and began to cry. He couldn’t believe how fortunate he was.
“It all caught up to me at once,” Hamani said. “I couldn’t help but cry with joy and sadness that the people I was spending time with for the last two years may never get the chance to experience a life like I have.”
On his way home from the Ontario Airport in June 2011, Hamani stopped by In-N-Out and ordered a four-by-four — a burger with four patties and four slices of cheese, plus toppings. It was his first meal since arriving from the Philippines. He saved it until he got home. Sitting at the dinner table with his parents and his four brothers, he took a bite. Again, his emotions got the best of him.
“To have that amount of food for one person, I felt really guilty,” Hamani said. “I couldn’t believe how well we have it here. To have that right there and thinking that that could be someone’s meal for the week.”
This was the moment when his mom, Telekaki, realized Hamani wasn’t the same son she said goodbye to over a year and a half ago.
“I knew I had a changed child in my home,” Telekaki said. “I was so grateful.”
A member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, Hamani grew up about 30 minutes away from any major highway in the small town of Hemet, California.
“You have to go out of your way to get to Hemet,” Hamani said.
Hamani, like many, “had to be with the trend,” according to Telekaki. New shoes and up-to-date electronics were some of the things she remembers him asking for.
“He didn’t realize how other people have gone without,” Telekaki said. “Life is more than just wanting.”
A four-star recruit out of high school, Hamani was stuck between the decision of attending Oregon or UCLA — about a 12 and a half hour difference from Hemet.
Hamani chose Oregon and the coaches of Oregon knew that a spiritual mission trip was still a decision Hamani had yet to make.
“The coaches and everyone (were) so nice and so kind,” Telekaki said. “That was one of the things we’d asked about.”
When he arrived to Oregon, his youth showed.
“He was immature,” offensive line coach Steve Greatwood said. “Not very disciplined, didn’t really understand the work ethic and the preparation it was going to take — as a lot of freshmen are.”
In 2008, Hamani redshirted his freshman year. Ahead of his second season, he began to consider a mission trip, which he hadn’t planned until that point. To complicate things further for Hamani, there was a chance he could start in the 2009 season under new head coach Chip Kelly.
“At first I wasn’t going to go on a mission when I first came over here,” Hamani said. “I was just going to keep playing football. I just decided to take the mission instead.”
As the 2009 Oregon football team was beginning its season, Hamani was on his way to the Philippines. He wouldn’t return to the United States for 21 months.
Before Hamani left, he had just a couple of months to prepare at the Missionary Training Center in Provo, Utah for the Philippines and most notably, their language: Tagalog. They gave him the basics before he was to get “thrown into the fire.” Hamani saw it as an opportunity to “sink or swim.” Hamani chose to swim.
“I totally immersed into their culture,” Hamani said.
Hamani spent about two months in each location he was placed and at every site he met new “companions.” These companions were other Latter-day Saints on their own mission and together they served the community.
“Any chance we could do good in the community, we were doing that,” Hamani said. “From helping someone lift something up to rebuilding a house.”
One memory that stands out to Hamani was the opportunity he got to help a man build a new home. The name of the man isn’t something Hamani forgot: Francisco. However the spelling is a mystery unsolved.
“We were walking around trying to find someone to talk to, and we talked to him and asked him if he needed help with anything,” Hamani describes years later.
Francisco told Hamani and his companions what he needed.
“I thought he was joking,” Hamani said laughing. “But he actually wanted help from us to build his house so we were like, ‘Sure, why not?’”
The plan for the house was simple, nothing too architecturally complicated. They stacked cement blocks around the foundation and did whatever Francisco asked.
“Having someone to live off our work and labor is a good thought to think about,” Hamani said. “He was so grateful and his whole family was so appreciative of what we did.”
After they built the house, Francisco’s kids were allowed to create a mural of whatever they wanted on one of the sides of the house, but Francisco didn’t let his workers walk away unattributed.
“He asked us to sign our names on his house,” Hamani said. “I thought that was pretty cool, somewhere out there my name is on somebody’s house.”
On the other side of the globe Hamani’s teammates were still playing football. He missed Oregon’s first Rose Bowl appearance since 1994 and Hamani was still connected through emails with his mom. However, when Oregon went 12-0 in 2010, Hamani was on edge. He didn’t know if Oregon had made it to the BCS National Championship. When he finally got the word from his mom, he couldn’t believe it.
“I was in shock and disbelief that they could make it that far,” Hamani said. “I definitely was being impatient and really wanted to find some kind of TV or satellite station so I could tune-in and see what was going on.”
Unfortunately, he couldn’t and he missed the game.
“I was lucky enough to be at a country where football wasn’t that big and I wouldn’t be distracted or tempted to feel regret that I didn’t stay.”
Nonetheless, while Hamani was on his mission he was able to stay committed to working out for his return. In fact he had been working out his own way, without a gym.
“I had to do my own workout routine,” Hamani said.
The strength of the US dollar allowed for supplies to be cheap. So Hamani “filled a cylinder with cement mix and put the bar into it, waited for it to dry and did that to the other side.”
To his surprise, when he arrived back home he was just as strong as he was when he left.
“Luckily, those cement blocks paid off for me,” Hamani said.
In his first year back as a redshirt freshman, Hamani played in eight games including the Pac-12 Championship Game. He is now a key force of the offensive line, starting in each of the past 22 games for the Ducks.
“Since he’s come back he did a lot of growing,” Greatwood said. “I think it has really worked out for the best.”
Still, when things aren’t the best, Hamani remembers the poverty he saw during his mission. He is reminded that just having a home, food and clothing means “you’re living good.”
It has been over six years since Hamani began his career at the University of Oregon. Now with just three games remaining in his final regular season, Hamani is near the end of another mission. There is no doubt he will leave Oregon a better man than when he came. For that reason, another mission successful.
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