You either love it or you hate it. There rarely seems to be a happy medium when it comes to Valentine’s Day. But whether you are headed out on a dinner date, or going out with friends to run the town (queue Beyonce’s “Single Ladies,”) Valentine’s Day calls for something special. If nothing else, the holiday is a wonderful excuse to get dressed up and wear that dress you ordered last year and still sits in the back of your closet.

When it comes to fashion, Valentine’s Day can get tacky pretty fast. To avoid looking like a first grade teacher, be sure to keep your outfit simple. Though what you choose to wear is completely up to you, here are a few ideas that won’t have you feeling overly clichéd for dressing up on Valentine’s Day.

Out on a dinner date:

Though we all go out to dinner more than once a year, why not take the chance to get a little more dressed up and really “wow” your date. If you are looking to stand out I would stay away from red or pink, seeing as just about everyone and their mother will be dressed in those colors. For something feminine and flirty try a patterned skater dress. Pair that with wedges, or booties (ones you can actually walk in) and a bold red lipstick. To give the look a bit more of an edge, throw on a leather jacket.

Guys: A nice pair of khakis and a button up. Add a tie if you feel like being a bit more formal. But, please, don’t wear your dirty old Nike’s.

Going out with friends:

If you’re going on a group date or out with friends, dress up your usual skinny jeans. Dark-wash jeans are a bit more formal than light-wash so grab a pair of those, and do your best to stay away from distressed jeans. Pair the jeans with a chiffon top to keep it dressy and add a black blazer or something of the sort. Add some black booties, and layer a few gold necklaces to make your outfit a bit more glamorous.

Gents: Jeans are acceptable (no sagging allowed) and a button up.

 Staying in:

When staying in comfort is key, but comfortable doesn’t mean you have to look like a bum.

Ladies: Try a slouchy off-the-shoulder shirt. Or, try a T-shirt with a low back.  Combine the top with a pair of jeans or leggings if you are really going for comfort.

Gents: Jeans and a t-shirt are totally acceptable.

So, whatever you choose to wear just make sure you are confident, because that is the key to looking your best!